The Teen Years are going to be ugly

Look at that face? Its the face of  a smart aleck who seems to have all the come backs.

Somehow, I have lost control of this child. The listening has gone the way of the wind. I just don't get it, I know she is testing me. Give me a f, ladies and gentlemen.

For the most part, we have good days but it's a daily struggle for her to listen the first time. Forget 1-2-3 magic, that works sporadically. The praising technique works but not enough to eliminate the sassy back talk.

Help!!!