Why was I freaked out? Because our interactions on a daily basis are usually non-existent. If she even looks at the parents at drop off, it's unusual, let alone address you.
As I stood there, chatting with her about the bargains in the store, I really wanted to corner her and ask her "how is my daughter doing?" but I didn't. It seemed like an inappropriate moment to ambush her with the question. One of the other parents, said I was nuts, why not?
And so the awkward moment ended. "I gotta pick up my daughter, have a great weekend." politely ending the conversation and off I scooted hoping not to run into her as I left.
In the same situation, would you have asked your teacher how your child is doing????
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No, never. It is a social faux pas and I wouldn't like it if someone asked me about my work when I am on my own time.
Anonymous - in hindsight, I wouldnt want anyone ambushing me either about work.
I guess in your situation, maybe not. Here in our little town (population 3000 +/-) I might just say, "How do think things are going this year with my daughter?" I would imagine by now you've had a parent-teacher conference so you have some sort of idea. I'd make sure she didn't know I wanted a sit down 1/2 hour meeting with her right then and there. Just a quick check in. Maybe have asked her how she feels the class in general is?
That's life in a small town, though. Maybe different than the big city. :)
~Mimi
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